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9 Reasons to Kick Your Kids Outside

We are better, kinder, gentler parents outside. True, we are also sweatier, dirtier, and more likely to be doused with copious amounts of DEET, but the good so far outweighs the uncomfortable here that we stopped noticing. In any case, we have strong, rock solid arguments for why you need to kick your clan out into the great blue yonder.

1. Nothing connects a family like no Wifi.

Seriously. If you have fantasies of logging some serious hours of family togetherness with cards, charades, or even just actual conversation, drop your family in the closest wilderness you can rustle up. Just remember to bring a map and compass, because nothing ensures that this memory will move from good to godawful-must-recount-at-Thanksgiving-dinner-until-the-end-of-time like getting lost together without your phone’s GPS.

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2. Wanna talk? Lace up those hiking boots.

Sulky teens and moody toddlers can both bring civil discourse to a screaming halt or entrench themselves in conversational stalemates worthy of a white flag. In any case, the cure for what is ailing your familial discussion is movement. Take this show on the road. Something about the fresh air and the one-foot-in-front-of-the-other nature of a trail gets the conversation juices flowing again.

Reasons to kick your kids outside---Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms

3. Water cures all.

Great literature and religious traditions everywhere will back us up: water is a godsend. Sure, water can end epic droughts and convert the faithless masses, but that’s nothing compared to what it will do for a cranky kid, prickly pre-teen, or tetchy teen. Just add water and watch the magic happen. So get your cranky crew to a pool, lake, ocean, or even neighborhood swimming hole. You can even count that as a bath that day too. Tell your mother-in-law we told you so. Win, win, win.

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4. They learn stuff.

Put away the summer reading and workbooks. If you are stressing about your kids’ brains turning to mush under the weight of a hundred unstructured days, we have the antidote to your anxiety. There is literally no end to what your kids can learn outside. Sure, they can learn useful skills like reading a map and compass or glean great information about local plants, animals, and history. But by far the most valuable thing they learn is the things you don’t teach them. It may look like boredom but there is important brain work being done when they are lying in the grass like that drooling on themselves. At least that’s what we keep telling ourselves.

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5. Nature is the best of buffers.

This far into summer we don’t need to tell you that kids are loud. Really, really loud. And messy. And stinky. And did we mention loud? The great outdoors welcomes all that kids have to offer and then offers this back: a place for them to be fully themselves without things like pesky walls or carpets to clean. Bonus: kids outside are not as loud as pictured.

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6. Cheap Thrills

Nature inspires their creativity and ignites their wonder. This is a fancy way of saying that once you get them out there, you don’t need to do much. Just sit back and watch them play.

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7. Unleash their inner warriors.

By this point in the summer, they are starting to use that b-word we all hate. Banish the boredom just by opening the door. Let their “What I did This Summer” essays start with “I found adventure”.

Reasons to kick you kids outside--Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms

8. Build their tribe.

Nothing makes a bunch of individuals a team like some shared adventures. Create the ties that bind by offering them opportunities to make memories that will last a lifetime.

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9. Just do it.

Show them some of the amazing things that can happen when they leave their calm, cool, air-conditioned safe space behind and just jump.

Reasons to kick your kids outside--Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms

Go on now, unplug that XBOX, save the Netflix marathon for next week, and get out there already!

-Erin and Ellen

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Read This When You Have Time

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Ten years ago, a kind but wily acquaintance was giving me the hard sell. He was leaving the neighborhood Cub Scout pack and moving on with his son. He was looking for a replacement/fresh meat/gullible sucker to take his place. I was strong and full of good reasons why I was not the girl he was looking for. He listened intently to every word I said and nodded his head in quiet acknowledgement. But as he was leaving, he handed me a note and said, “read this when you have time.”

Well, to this day, I think of him as the Lex Luther to my Supermom persona. On that little note, he had written the following:

Let’s just say that his little note was the kryptonite to all my arguments. I have been happily traipsing, backpacking, hiking, biking, and canoeing the outdoors with a gaggle of boys (and girls too) in tow ever since.

But that doesn’t mean that I was ready for the job I had undertaken. I love the outdoors with a passion, but you know what they say about passion making you blind, right? I have gotten lost on familiar mountains more times than I can count. I would send up flares when the Diet Coke supply got a little low in the house, so my wilderness skills weren’t exactly honed yet. And the extent of my nature knowledge was mostly stuff I learned off of Snapple caps and from my own well-intentioned but equally clueless mom.

But the truth is that experience is a fine teacher and ten years in, you can feel safe sending your kids into the woods with me and giving them actual knowledge about the outdoors. We might get lost but we will have a darn good time getting there. I would have loved to have had the following book with me in my early days of figuring it all out and you will too.

The Truth About Nature: A Family’s Guide to 144 Common Myths about the Great Outdoors is a book you can sip or gulp. Organized by season with a fun myth rating system kids love, it’s a book that can serve as a reference when needed or a nightly reading staple just for fun. It’s a versatile, accessible read and how you read it will depend heavily on why you are reading it. Just know that once you open its pages, it’s hard to put it down.

My seven year old is currently obsessed with this book and goes around asking his friends things like, “Fact or Myth? Frogs freeze” or quizzing unsuspecting guests on whether they think that bats are blind. We read it in little bits each night as part of our nightly ritual and he can read it by himself but prefers to hear me say “No Way!” whenever a deeply entrenched myth of mine is debunked. But this book’s greatest value by far is the way it excites about the wonders of nature. Even lukewarm couch potatoes won’t be able to escape the allure of all the “too strange to be true” facts and fun experiments you can do at home.

So this is my note to you: Read this when you have time. I hope it changes your mind about nature and kids and kids in nature the way that other little note changed mine. If you want to take kids hiking, camping, or even just out in the great outdoors known as your backyard, you can make a great time even better if you bring this book along. Consider this the kryptonite to all your arguments about why you can’t get your kids away from the TV and on to a trail.

The fall colors are waiting. Enjoy some time with your family in nature today!

-Erin

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7 Reasons to Tell Your Kids to Take a Hike

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This is the point of summer break where the natives start getting restless. Vacation has come and gone, tidy craft corners have fallen into disarray, and summer bucket lists lie in tattered shreds. Now is the time for twiddling thumbs and casting around for things to do, right?

Fortunately for you, we at The Sisterhood have a foolproof plan to keep you all happy and sane for the next few weeks. So pry those kiddos away from the xbox, extricate them from the latest Youtube videos, and take this show on the road.

We spend many a summer day toting water bottles and packing bug spray as we venture with our crews into The Great Outdoors. We would not marinate in DEET or unleash our inner camel if we didn’t think the payout was worth the effort.

1. Nature is a top-notch noise buffer.

On our latest hike, my sister-in-law Kim said, without any trace of irony, as her children screeched past with their thundering herd of cousins, “I prefer to parent outside.”

We totally get what she means. Nature is the ultimate white noise: no pesky walls to bounce back annoying sibling smacktalk or worse.

Besides, when you are outside, you can always hang back and pretend all that noise is coming from someone else’s kid.

Why You Should Get Your Kids Outside and On A Trail---Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms

This is what 145 decibels of little boy looks like. Monkeys in the wild are ridiculously loud.

2. Nature brings out their creativity.

There is nothing like wide open spaces and some cool finds along the trail to bring out their inner woodland fairy or superhero.

They look like a movie poster for The Avengers: The Preschool Years

3. Nature is the ultimate arena.

We are extremely lucky to live a stone’s throw from a great state park that participates in Maryland’s Parkquest, but our experience hiking and camping all over our local environs is that every park has some kind of fun to offer. Frisbee golf and geocaching are the most common games we have found, but you won’t know until you go (or check their website).

Check out these “reindeer” games!

4. Hiking is a great workout.

Simply putting one foot in front of the other for three to six miles will make you feel so much better about all those extra ice cream cones and hot dogs you have been consuming on behalf of summer fun. Of course, finding a copper head on the trail might accelerate your heart rate a bit but that just means you can have the sprinkles, right?

Of course, children pretending to fall off mountains should be left to the mercy of said copperheads. The near heart attack for you means you can add some whipped cream and a cherry.

5. Some of the very best places you can’t get to by car.

Marco Polo will have nothing on you and all you need is a pair of hiking boots or sneakers.

One of the shelters on the Appalachian Trail

6. The view from the top.

It works literally and as a metaphor. Take your kids up a mountain and let them see the reward of all that hard work for themselves. Why You Should Get Your Kids Outside and On A Trail---Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms

7. There will be moments that melt your heart.

Teens and tweens aren’t always cute and cuddly any more but stick them on a trail and they surprise you in the best ways. We have also found that a trail is a great place to talk, kind of like the car but without all the smelly sneakers and sports gear fumes.