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5 Books We Are Sweet On

While chocolates, hearts, and flowers may be the way to some girls’ hearts, books are definitely the way to ours. If books fill you with a warm, happy feeling too, here are five that you might want to check out, download, or purchase for yourself or your sweetie.

And if you are interested in hearing us talk about one of these in real time, just click the podcast at the bottom of this post!

A Booklist Sure to Please You or Your Sweetie---Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms
Dept. of Speculation by Jenny Offill

There is a reason this book made it on to nearly every “Best Of” list last year—it’s quite simply a remarkable gem of a book. With her unique gift for plucking the extraordinary from the every day, Offill doesn’t just offer up moments from a marriage but gives us glimpses of the diamonds hidden in the rough patches as well. Offill’s structuring of the story can be the reader’s hard work. Through her careful curation of snippets from the marriage at the heart of this novel, Offill leaves the reader asking on every page—how do these pieces fit together? what does this mean here?—yet these tenuous but important questions serve the story she is trying to tell. Marriage isn’t a straight narrative so much as a thousand shimmering moments—beautiful, terrible, and strange—and she lays them all out for us in this gripping, lovely book about what it means to take this particular trip.

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On Immunity: An Inoculation by Eula Biss

You know how we feel about immunizations. Ellen wrote a great post about herd immunity and its current threat from the anti-vaxxer movement here.  But this book doesn’t so much argue for vaccines as wrap itself around the very concept of innoculation itself. Biss’ pace is unhurried as she weaves personal anecdotes in with history, literature, and scientific research. The result is a captivating read on a subject we cannot escape right now.  I cannot escape one of her quotes: “We owe each other our bodies.” An unputdownable piece of non-fiction that will keep you thinking long after you have turned the last page.

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The History of Love by Nicole Krauss

This book broke my heart a couple of years ago, but it never left me. It’s truly one of my favorites of all time, but it’s not easily summed up or laid out. Krauss, the wife of the literary superstar Jonathan Safran Foer, has a weighty literary talent of her own and she embues all of her gifts on telling this beautiful love story of a boy named Leo who loved a girl named Alma. That she lets this love story travel back and forth in time and be told from many angles is just a gift for the reader. This is a book you will cherish.

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All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr

For a big, honking tome like this with a beautiful, intricate story to boot, you could totally be spot on in thinking, “Really, Erin? You serious?” Well, those who love the literary heavy hitters are already gonna be on board with this wide open, lyrical book, but even if you are just looking for a great story, trust me when I say that this book is for you. It starts as a father’s love story. Marie-Laure loses her sight at six years old and her father, a talented locksmith in charge of all the locks at the Museum of Natural History, uses his abundant gifts to help her learn to manage her blindness. By the power of Doerr’s narrative gifts, it morphs into something else entirely.  There is so much good stuff in these pages and Doerr plays well with every character and theme he introduces. It may not be great literature, but it is a damn fine read and that is enough to keep you warm on a cold winter night.

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 Station Eleven by Emily St. John Martel

This is the one book that I am telling everyone to read right now. It’s such a great all-around literary experience from the plot that sucks you in to the characters that pull you through to the questions it keeps asking you. I could go on and on.

station-elevenIn fact, you can hear me (and Ellen) go on and on about this book and other things too in our latest podcast. Just click it below!

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Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for Guys

Everybody knows guys are hard to buy for. But that time is coming around the mountain again when you are going to need to just suck it up and find something sweet for your sweetie. In the spirit of true Sisterhood, here is a great Valentine’s Gift Guide for Guys with ideas that should appeal to your guy too.

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1.  Star Wars Han and Leia Bathroom Hand Towels

Erin’s SIL gave these to Steve for Christmas and, quite frankly, She moved up the ranks a few notches with this thoughtful gift. We love them! Tell your favorite Star Wars fan that your love would be perfect even in a galaxy far, far, away with these.

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2. BOLDLOFT® “From My Heart to Yours” Couple Coffee Mugs

Coffee IS love. These two mugs are off the charts sweet AND functional. Just make sure to fill it with his favorite blend first on the big day and you are good to go.

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3.Sennheiser HD-280 PRO Headphones

There is nothing like a love song to let your guy know just how you feel. With these headphones, he’ll hear your sweet nothings and all his favorite tunes loud and clear.

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4. Coordinate Bracelet

We love the idea of this one! Commemorate where you met or any special location. Customize it to fit your love story.

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5. SONOS PLAY Compact Wireless Speaker for Streaming Music

Let your guy listen to all his favorites anywhere in your home. Sonos has such clear perfect sound, this will surely win his heart.

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6. Men’s Silk Robe

Sometimes a guy needs something a little nicer to lounge around in. Let him know that you think he’s special and deserving of a little luxury in the midst of your crazy life.

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7. USB Flash Drive Cufflinks

These fully functional USB drives are hidden in great-looking cufflinks. Your favorite techie will lose his mind (and heart) for these.

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8.The Man Can

Keep your man looking and smelling nice without feeling like he’s relinquishing his man card.

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9. Round Whiskey Stones with Two Tumblers

We could extol all the virtues of a great whiskey and all the evils of ice cubes when serving it.   Help him serve his chilled with nary an evil ice cube in sight.

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10. “Love Is the Tie That Binds” Hidden Message Tie Bar

Sure, you could buy him a tie, but wouldn’t he love this more? Seriously sweet and he’ll remember you are thinking of him all day long.

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11. The Ultimate Bar Book: The Comprehensive Guide to Over 1,000 Cocktails

A great book full of any drink you can imagine. A must-have for the guy who likes to host.

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12. Custom Anniversary Stamped Brass Key Ring

This one is super-sweet. Customize it with any special anniversary or message. He’ll think of you every time he starts the car or opens the door.

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13. Food: A Love Story by Jim Gaffigan

The gift of laughter is always the right size. You know what that means don’t you?  When he finishes, he can pass it on to you. Winning!

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14. Fire TV Stick

Got an Amazon Prime membership? Well this is what you need to get the most out of it. For $39.00 you unlock a world of movies, TV shows, and music. Ellen’s family loves this little piece of magic more than chocolate.

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15. Kenneth Cole Messenger Bag

A new snazzy bag is a great way to perk up his everyday. And of course, this easily fits a laptop.

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

Erin and Ellen

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10 Love Songs For Valentine’s Day

The Countdown is on, people! One week until Valentine’s Day!  Time for the collective push back at the commercial juggernaut Hallmark has built.  Boo to over-priced cards, short-lived flowers, tushy-padding candies and  dust-collecting, bedbug-colonizing bears.

We’ll celebrate our love the old-fashioned way . . . with a mixed tape. Of course, we know that mixed tapes have gone the way of the dodo and New Coke. It’s just that when Ellen and I got together with our guys, we still called playlists “mixed tapes”.

This list is a deeply personal one. Think of it as a love story, my love story, told in song. Of course, each and every song is a much better choice than a lot of what’s offered up on lists like this one.

10 love songs

1. “Fly Me to the Moon” by Frank Sinatra

The song that quite literally started our whole romance. Back in the day, a newfangled contraption arrived on campus called voicemail. Steve and I had started hanging out the fall of my senior year, but we weren’t really dating yet. We were both going to our school’s annual Screw Your Roommate dance though, and we planned on trying to sneak in a dance. Unfortunately, this SYR dance had about as much drama on the floor as you might expect. Long story short: our dance never happened. Sweet Steve sent me this song to my brand-spanking new voicemail with a fun message about dancing to it later. I was a goner, ladies. A total goner.

2. “Romeo and Juliet” by Indigo Girls

So the Indigo Girls were kind of a thing when we were in college, and this particular song played on a loop during my senior year AKA  the Heady-Crazy-About-Each-Other phase.  The soaring vocals, the raw emotion, the energy. It was and still is the epitome of young, earnest love.

3. “Home” by Bonnie Raitt

While not a huge country music fan in general, Bonnie Raitt and the Dixie Chicks bridge the Great Divide for me. This one captures so clearly that moment when I realized that I was right where I was supposed to be. This Guy. This Moment. The Future I was starting to imagine for us.

4. “Slow Dancing” by Bono

Is it enough to just say Bono? It should be. This is a special song for us. Hell, it should be for everyone. Try NOT to dance with your sweetheart to this one.

5. “At Last” by Etta James

This song was worn out for all the playtime I gave it in the months leading up to my wedding. Old songs sung by beautiful, strong voices hit every right note for me. Whenever I hear this one, I’m 23 again. I can’t promise time travel when you hear it, but anybody who has found THAT somebody will get why this song can still move me to tears.

6.  “You and I” Ingrid Michaelson

Even though I just found this song recently, it captures young love’s optimism and wild imagining so well I had to include it. It hints at that friendship and camaraderie that lies at the heart of many relationships, but especially mine.

7. The Beatles “In My Life”

This one isn’t just for Steve but for our whole little kingdom. It was playing on our CD player when I came home from the hospital with my first baby. In my life, I’ve loved them all, these people, my little clan. More than they will ever know.

8. “Hey, Stephen” by Taylor Swift

When my daughter was a tween, we both fell in love with Taylor Swift.  One day in the car we heard this song. From the front, I shouted over my shoulder,  “This is my song for Daddy!”  I don’t know what it says about the brain trust I’m raising that not a single child questioned how it could be our song when Taylor had just written it and clearly we had been around the block a couple times before that. Nevertheless, it is a love song for a boy named Stephen, and I’ve got me one of those.

9. “Come Away With Me” by Nora Jones

As of next week, we will tip the scales and teens will outnumber us.  While not a terrifying realization, it is a sobering one. We already play this song often, plot our getaways, and exchange meaningful glances over school projects and dirty dishes. This is the rolled-up sleeves, deep-in-the-trenches stage of parenting for us, but Nora takes us to that beautiful place we want to get back to together.

10. “Grow Old Along With Me” by Mary Chapin Carpenter

This song always gives me a catch in the throat when I remember that John Lennon not only never really got to record this song properly before he was killed, he never grew old with his sweetheart. God bless our love and all those like it that we all get our second acts, our quiet folding into old age together.

Feel free to add your own love song to the list!

-Erin

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